Do you ever stop and listen to sports fans talk about the teams they follow?Â
I do.Â
My co-workers talk about all kinds of sports … by all kinds I mean baseball, football, and basketball. When my co-workers talk about the teams they love - Phillies, Eagles, and 76ers - I often hear these teams referred to as “they”.Â
Here is a typical conversation head at my office:
The Phillies stank last night.
They sure did.
Why do they stink so much.
Well they lack heart, skill, intelligence…
Yada yada yada.
Now compare that to the conversations heard at pubs and cafes the world over (even here in the USA) when futbol fans gather.
Man, the Czechs tore us apart.
We got pasted, but Eddie Johnson did us proud.
If we don’t start playing with some passion it’ll be 1998 all over again.
We’ll pull it out.
etc., etc., etc.
Notice the difference? This is one of the many reasons American’s don’t get the passion that flows the the world of footy fans. A footy fan includes him or herself in the team whereas fans of American sports put themselves on the outside looking in. Why is that? Why do Americans get these puzzled looks on their face when they hear that Poland is still pissed at Germany for making them play on a water0logged pitch in 1974 thus negating the speed that the Poles were known for. Why? Because Americans think they are passionate about their sports but they do not live them. In every game played between the US and Mexico for the next 100 years the Mexican team will always look back to their defeat at out hands in 2002. It’s true! As I mentioned in an earlier post - find a Mexican fan (though nearly anyone of Mexican descent) and tell him or her how sweet the US performance was in 2002 and get ready to dodge whatever hurled object the Mexican fan can reach.
Passion. We think we have it. We don’t. Not to the same extent as the Brazilians, Mexicans, English, Germans, Italians, Togans, etc., etc., etc.
We confuse volume for passion. We think that the louder we shout the more passion we have.
Go to a soccer match in any other part of the world and make sure the match is between local rivals (called a derby for those who are not soccer literate) and you will not be able to hear yourself think. I am not talking about the noise generated by a typical NFL game. I am talking about tens of thousands of people singing and chanting in unison … for 90 minutes straight … in temperature at or near freezing … in the rain … and their team is losing … badly.
That is passion. Its we … not they.